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By Dr Duncan Houston

Your dog sits in the kitchen, then seems to forget the same cue outside. That does not automatically mean it is ignoring you. A different surface, an interesting smell or another dog nearby can turn a familiar exercise into a much harder task.

Basic training works best when you make the requested action clear, reward it promptly and practise in manageable steps. The goal is useful communication in everyday life, not instant control in every situation.

Quick Answer

Start dog training in a quiet, familiar place, choose one clear behaviour and reward small successes. Use consistent cues, a well-timed marker and short sessions that end before either of you becomes frustrated. Gradually practise around new distractions, while continuing to use leads, barriers and supervision wherever safety depends on them.

Choose what you want the dog to do

A useful goal describes an action you can see: look towards you, put four paws on the floor, lie on a mat or come a short distance when called. “Be good” and “stop being excited” are too vague to teach directly.

Pick one starting goal. You can teach several skills over time, but switching between unfamiliar tasks in the same short session can make it harder for your dog to recognise what earns a reward.

Agree on the words and hand signals with everyone involved. If “down” means lie down to one person and stop jumping to another, choose separate cues so that the same word does not ask for two different actions.

Also decide how the dog will know an exercise has finished. A consistent release word can make a brief stay clearer than expecting the dog to guess when it is free to move.

Prepare for a small, successful session

  • Choose a familiar area with few distractions and secure the space.
  • Use a comfortable, non-slip surface for position exercises.
  • Have rewards ready before asking for anything.
  • Check that ordinary needs such as a toilet opportunity and access to water have been met.
  • Begin when your dog is able and willing to engage, rather than interrupting necessary rest.

A few good repetitions can be enough. Five to ten minutes is often suggested for a short session, but it is not a target your dog must reach. Stop earlier when attention or comfort changes.

Puppies, newly adopted dogs and experienced adults may need different starting points. Prior learning does not remove the need to make a new setting manageable.

Use rewards and timing clearly

Find what is rewarding in this situation

Food, a suitable toy, play or access to an enjoyable activity can reinforce a behaviour. Praise may be welcome, but do not assume it has the same value as the reward your dog is actively choosing.

Use small food pieces and account for them within the normal feeding plan. Keep any existing dietary restrictions in place. Do not make your dog go hungry to obtain cooperation.

Mark the action you want repeated

A short word such as “yes” or a clicker can identify the successful moment before the reward arrives. Pair the marker with the reward so it becomes meaningful.

For a sit, mark when the dog's bottom reaches the ground. For a stay, reward while the dog is still in the requested position. If you wait until it jumps up to deliver everything, the message becomes less clear.

Practise your own timing without the dog if handling a lead, clicker and treats feels awkward. Good training includes making the task manageable for the person too.

Five useful starter skills

Sit: capture or guide a voluntary movement

You can reward a sit your dog offers naturally. Alternatively, hold a small treat near its nose and move your hand gradually upward and slightly back so that following it encourages a sit.

Mark and reward the moment the dog sits. Keep the movement small enough that it does not need to jump or strain upwards. Once the action is familiar, use the same hand movement without food visible in that hand, then reward from elsewhere.

Add the word “sit” just before the familiar action or hand signal. Do not push the dog's bottom down. If sitting is not comfortable for the individual, use another appropriate position rather than insisting.

Down: reward progress towards the floor

From a comfortable sit, guide a treat slowly towards the floor in front of the paws. Reward a voluntary lie-down, or begin by rewarding smaller movements towards it if the full action does not happen.

Gradually reduce the visible food lure while keeping the hand signal clear. Add the verbal cue once the dog understands the movement. Never press the back or shoulders down to force the position.

A down is a body position, not proof that the dog feels relaxed. Continue to notice the setting and the dog's overall behaviour.

Stay: begin beside the dog

Ask for a comfortable position and reward it immediately. Then introduce a tiny pause before rewarding, while remaining close.

Build duration before adding distance. Introduce a clear stay cue and a release cue, then practise a small shift of your own body before taking a step away. Return to reward the dog while it is still in position.

If it gets up, reset calmly and shorten the next attempt. Do not increase distance, waiting time and distractions together. A stay is not a substitute for a closed door or a barrier around a hazard.

Come: make returning worthwhile

Start at a short distance in a secure area when your dog is likely to approach. Give your recall cue once, encourage the movement and reward arrival generously.

Practise easy returns during ordinary activity, not only when you need to end something enjoyable. Where appropriate, allow the dog to return to a safe activity after the reward.

Use a lead or other suitable management outside secure areas while the skill develops. Never punish a dog after it comes back, even if the return took longer than you wanted.

Leave it: practise with something safe

Begin with a low-interest, harmless item in a controlled setting. Prevent access without frightening the dog, then reward a small disengagement, such as turning its head away, using a different reward.

Keep the task easy enough that the dog is not repeatedly pawing, grabbing or becoming frustrated. Add the cue as the response becomes predictable and gradually change the setup.

Do not use dangerous food, medication or a valuable guarded object as a test. “Leave it” is a learned skill, not a safety guarantee. Put hazards away and seek suitable help if taking or approaching objects creates conflict.

Help your dog use the skill somewhere new

A dog may learn an exercise together with many features of the original setting: your position, the room, the floor and the absence of distractions. A new location can require an easier version.

Change one factor at a time. Practise a familiar cue in another quiet room before moving to a busy outdoor area. Reduce duration or distance when the surroundings become more interesting.

Notice the practical signs that the step is too large. If the dog repeatedly misses a familiar cue or cannot engage with an easy reward-based task, create more distance from the distraction or return to a quieter setting.

Do not keep repeating the same cue at increasing volume. Make success possible, reward it and build from there.

What to do about unwanted behaviour

Manage the situation first

Prevent repeated practice of a problem where you can. Use a suitable barrier during a busy arrival, clear objects from reach or choose a quieter walking route while teaching an alternative.

Ignoring is not an all-purpose training method. It does not make an unsafe situation safe, meet a genuine care need or explain why a dog is worried.

Teach a specific alternative

For a dog that jumps to greet people, arrange calm practice and reward four paws on the floor before the jump occurs. For a dog that follows every kitchen movement, work on an easy nearby station or mat in a safe setting.

Barking also needs context. Consider what the dog is reacting to rather than automatically demanding silence. Reduce avoidable pressure and reward an appropriate response the dog can manage.

Avoid punishment and confrontation

AVSAB recommends reward-based methods and advises against aversive training. Shouting, physical corrections and equipment used to cause pain or fear are not required to teach everyday skills.

A stern “no” also does not tell a dog what action you want instead. Use clear management, a manageable alternative and well-timed rewards.

Review progress without chasing perfection

Keep a simple note of the cue, location, distance or duration, and what the dog achieved. “Stayed while I moved one step away in the lounge” is a useful record. “Was obedient today” is less specific.

When progress stalls, check the reward, timing and difficulty. Change one feature, then observe again. If either of you is frustrated, pause and return to an easier version later.

Daily exercise, sniffing, suitable enrichment and rest should support the routine. More demanding drills are not a replacement for those needs.

Common mistakes to avoid

  • Repeating a cue before the dog understands it
  • Rewarding too late to identify the intended action
  • Keeping food visibly in the hand forever instead of gradually reducing the lure
  • Increasing distance, duration and distractions all at once
  • Ignoring distress or danger under the label of training
  • Expecting a learned cue to replace leads, barriers or supervision

When to get training support

A qualified reward-based trainer can help you make the steps clearer and adjust the setup. Ask how they teach, what they do when a dog struggles and whether you can observe their approach.

For persistent fear, serious conflict or a concern about the dog's wellbeing, seek appropriate veterinary and behavioural support rather than escalating corrections. A beginner obedience exercise is not a complete plan for every behaviour problem.

Frequently Asked Questions

Which cue should I teach first?

Choose a simple, useful behaviour your dog can comfortably offer, such as looking towards you or sitting. The first goal is clear communication, not completing a fixed list in order.

Will using treats make my dog dependent on them?

Food can be a useful teaching reward. Gradually remove the visible lure once the movement is understood, while continuing to reward useful behaviour. Do not abruptly stop making cooperation worthwhile.

Why does my dog respond at home but not outside?

The outdoor setting may be much harder. Reduce distance or duration, start farther from distractions and reward the easier version before building up.

Can older dogs learn basic skills?

Yes. Adapt the task to the individual dog's comfort and previous experience. Age alone is not a reason to use force or give up on clear, rewarding practice.

Make one request easy to understand

Choose one behaviour, prepare a quiet setup and reward a small success. Repeat comfortably, then make the next step only slightly harder. Consistent, manageable practice gives your dog a fair chance to learn what you mean.

Sources

Dogs Trust: basic sit, down and stay training and practical training tips; RSPCA: reward-based training, recall and leave-it guidance; American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior: Humane Dog Training Position Statement and subsequent board clarification.


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